Me & JP, Conversations with a 7-Year-Old…

Me: There’s some cranberry juice left. Want some for dinner?

JP: I don’t think I like it.

Me: Do you want to try some?

JP: Okay. Ooh, Nana, it makes my face crumple!

Yay, Yay, it’s Saturday…

A few memes for December…enjoy!

One Year…

I’m proud of myself and my family for facing all the firsts this past year without my husband (and their father) whom we lost last December 3. Yesterday we went to lay wreaths on his grave and those of my parents and my sister-in-laws’ parents at Abraham Lincoln National Cemetery.

Of course I broke down again, but the grief is not so fresh and all encompassing most of the time. It’s hard to explain what triggers tears now. More often than not it’s something random; a song we liked, a tv show we watched, a restaurant we enjoyed together.

His unexpected death from an aneurysm a robbed us of a chance to say our goodbyes, and that had been so difficult for us all.   I’m comforted knowing we said I love you to each other at least once every day of our 37 years together. And though the suddenness of his death was hard on all of us left behind, I don’t think my husband suffered and for that I’m so grateful.

If I’ve learned anything this past year it’s that life really is too short and precious. I don’t want to waste even a moment on anything or anyone that doesn’t bring me joy…

Happy Thanksgiving…

To all who celebrate. Otherwise, Happy Thursday!

Early Thanksgiving…

One of the best things I fixed for Thanksgiving 😉🙃😆